Hello Stalkers!

Are we really stupid enough to spend time by minding what business others minding?

Well, we are actually not stupid, though we spend time in that epic-waste.

Waste is contagious, right? We need proper waste-management.

Why don’t we do that for ourselves? We need to remember, our minds are fully occupied by others thoughts and shits.

We really need waste-management.

Here’s a good news. We have it!

Why Waste-Management? 🗑️

Because, there is waste. As simple as that explains. All I just want is to make a quick jump-in, tell-it, go-off stunt.

Answer me, honey.

Are you really doing what you want to do right now?

Take 15 seconds to answer that in mind. Now, just infer or introspect what your answer is, by following me.

First, if you say no.

1. You are in a position to satisfy other people’s need.

2. You don’t have the guts do it.

3. You don’t have time. ❌

Third is never a reason, just don’t consider it any time sooner in your whole life.

If you want it, you will find time. Else, nothing can stop you from not doing it.

Look at me, I am writing this at 11: 56 pm while my cousin is drowning in each swipe of reels. Because I wanted to.

Most of the time, when we want to do it, we really give our lives to get that done. Conclusion is,

2. You don’t have the guts do it. ❌

This doesn’t apply either, at least for the time being.

So, WHAT’S THE THING?

1. You are in a position to satisfy other people’s need.

Translation: You are induced by other’s frequency more than yours. Even if that meant responsibility, it must make you happy at some point when you achieve it. As it fails to happen. You are worried if it doesn’t accomplished. There are stakes to look after.

There is a always knife behind you if you fail and seldom a reward to be handed if you win. You never knew why you are doing it. Feels like it never ends. Finally forgetting what you wanted to do along. And, you just lost your identity.

You. Lost. Your. Identity.

You had no track of your deep desires. Even if you know, you are stranded clueless of how to make it happen.

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What I listed out are not the only reasons behind ‘not doing want you want’, but the compelling epidemic behind every mind in this era. And we need to hurry up!

Secondly, if you say yes to the question, I ask you to re-consider your answer (I’m happy if you really are.)

Because most of the people are in the pathetic delusion as that they have what they want which is actually not with them.

That’s why Waste-Management.

How Waste-Management? 🚮

Our mind is not a physical garbage to pick up and put it into the trash can. But neither it is mountain weighing task.

First, let us know the ONLY BARRIER which blocks the way out of us.

BELIEF.

Don’t close the tab and storm off. Wait. Patience is the key, friends.

The thing you can do to your belief is to destroy the shape of it into what you really are. You don’t have to create something new which is not existing in the Universe. Just re-kindling what is already there.

The time when I phrase it into ‘You Lost Your Identity’, it only meant to mean ‘You Forgot Your Identity’.

So, hunt for a moment to realise that you are already enough.

Already great.

Already responsible.

Already beautiful.

Already satisfied.

Already happy.

And already all ready!

If you really say you don’t like your life right now, will you die right now when given opportunity? No, of course.

Why?

Because, there is something which is tied and trying to pull you. Grab that rope and move ahead.

You could be better in writing than scoring in Math. You could be a better singer than they thought you were. You could be an athlete when they want you to be something else.

That’s your call.

Most of the time in my school life right now, the only thing which nags us is marks, looks, quality, expression and stupid etcetera things.

I am least bothered about all of them. However, I am a human too. I usually worry about collaborating with people. It always happens to me. My friends will be casually cracking jokes and mingling like they’ve known each other for years and will be there for the rest of the life.

But, no, that’s not true.

This comparison usually makes no sense to me but hurts the most sometimes.

We all face similar kind of situations. May it be, rejection, fear of rejection, comparison, accusation, blame, and what not?

What does that belief make us? 🧠

Feeling of not enough, anxiety, looking for escapism though mediums, depressed, self-hatred, jealous, and searching what you lost in the form of love from others (the most spoiled extent).

Why waste time when it is not true. When what you really are is just forgotten and not vanished in thin airs?

It’s you who you are trying to find.

Most of the people doesn’t even try or they may be scared to face their bare self (subconsciously).

Isn’t that sad?

“The most painful and scariest thing in the world is to look in the mirror and not recognize the person staring right at you.”

Says Renuka Gavrani in her book ‘The Art of Being Alone’. My favourite book ever.

It taught me how to love myself and not wait for the prince charming to come, rescue and enchant or entertain you.

Look, you agree or not, No one is permanent. No one will rescue you from anything you think they would. You are the only one who will cross the end line in your run.

You have hands, legs, eyes, nose, lips, tongue, feet, and every thing to operate on your own. Moreover you have your brain. You are not a fool who would choose unripened apple over fresh fruit.

There is not specific solution to apply on this that I can tell. It varies with each individual. Because, everyone grew up in different parts of the world, have different parents, different thoughts, different goals, different experiences, culture, hurt, likes, dislikes.

It’s you who can discover and stir up the fire in you back. It’s an alone job. A beautiful one. That’s when you feel proud on who you want to be. By the end of the day, that’s when you feel like sleeping peacefully.

We are unique in our own ways. Cut off your thoughts with the one word that you are what you are. Accept yourself. Don’t hurt yourself with your own blames like ‘I ruined it’, ‘It’s my fault’, ‘I could’ve been there’, ‘I should be this’, ‘I should be that’.

This Universe is a cluster of energy and frequency, and a collection starting from speck of dust, atom, vibration, unity, peace, love, sound, music, life, rhythm and much more magical things which always leave us awestruck.

If you are here, you are meant to be.

You deserve whatever is laid on your plate. Accept it and smile. You just let yourself free from lot of things. This works for everyone. Forgive yourself for your past mistakes, try to live than just exist.

Progress in what you are good at. Soundproof all the critics. They are just loud, like an empty can. Nothing inside.

We give second chances to junk foods to come back into our disciplined diet. We spare an extra hour to sleep when you set an alarm at 5 am. We give one more shot for our broken relationships too. Why don’t we give another chance for ourselves?

I am not sure whether I closed the whole lid but I believe I at least cemented the holes in your beautiful life.

All that matters in your life is actually you. Because when you take of yourself, you can take care of others better.

You can only lend a toffee only you had one. You can only fill others with love only if you have it in you. In yourself.

Never stop loving yourself. No matter how bad you think you are.

That’s how the cookie crumbles…

READ & CHEERS 🍻